I swear I wasn’t making a pass at my straight friend! But there was this long pause, and then he got serious and said he’d be into it. “When I told him I’d be happy to help him out, I was joking. “I didn’t know until after he broke up with his girlfriend that he hadn’t gotten a blow job the whole time they were together-four years!” Sam said. Which means I have no way of knowing for sure why that woman ghosted you or if your boyfriend is gay-or in your case, THROAT, how Sam feels about the four unreciprocated blow jobs he’s given you. And while I’m perfectly happy to speculate, I’m not a mind reader. Guys ask me why a woman ghosted them, and women ask me if their boyfriend is secretly gay. Zooming out for a second: People constantly ask me how the person they’re fucking or fisting or flogging feels about all the fucking or fisting or flogging they’re doing. What should I do? -Totally Have Reservations Over Advantage TakingĪ: Only one person knows how Sam feels about this “lopsided sexual arrangement,” THROAT, and it isn’t me-it’s Sam. But these are literally the only blow jobs I’ve received since I was a teenager. Sam knows I am not into guys and I’m never going to reciprocate, and I feel like this is probably not really fair to him. He’s a very good buddy, and I’m concerned this lopsided sexual arrangement might be bad for our friendship.
My problem is I am starting to feel guilty and worry I am using Sam. Since then, Sam has blown me three more times. I was glad to get some and had no hang-ups about a guy sucking me. Shortly after breaking up with my girlfriend, I was discussing my lack of oral sex with him and he said he’d be willing to “help me out.” I agreed, and Sam gave me an earth-shattering blow job. Which brings me to why I am writing: One of my closest friends, “Sam,” is a gay guy. I didn’t get a blow job the whole time we were together. She had a particular aversion to oral sex-both giving and receiving. One of the reasons we broke up was a general lack of sexual compatibility. Q: I am a 24-year-old straight guy who recently broke up with my girlfriend of more than four years.
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